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      <image:caption>Liliana, a bilingual (Spanish) therapist who provides individual and couples therapy in San Francisco Bay Area California.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Relationship Therapist Online - Marriage Counseling Online for Couples with Communication Issues</image:title>
      <image:caption>Feeling more like roommates than partners? Let’s help you reconnect. You can't remember when you last felt passionate in your marriage. Your relationship has changed from being lovers to being partners, and now roommates. You can't bear living like this for another 20 years, yet you can't imagine a life without your person. Lately, you swing between feeling disconnected and being annoyed with them. During these times, your partner appears stubborn and unchanging. Occasionally, there are glimpses of the life you envisioned for the both of you, but those moments are too few. You might be a high-achieving couple, who feel like roommates. You might be an immigrant or bicultural couple navigating acculturational stress, stress in general and identity. If you are a military couple, You need to reconnect despite deployments, TDYs, and the mission in general, but you’re feeling overwhelmed. There might be trauma mixed in to all this. You’re at a critical point in your relationship. You are lost and confused. I provide marriage counseling online to those who want to fall in love again. If you are on my page, you are ready to work on your relationship and give each other a chance, but don’t have the time to drive to an office! You are looking for marriage counseling to give your marriage a chance, but you’re both to busy. Come see me online.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Relationship Therapist Online - What does Online Couples Therapist with me look like?</image:title>
      <image:caption>First we will have a free 20-minute video consultation. If we all agree that we can work together, I’ll send you the intake forms for you to complete prior to your appointment. We will also agree on the date of our first meeting. When you come to see me, we will review the forms and schedule an individual session for each of you to share your story. After I hear from both of you together and individually, I will identify your patterns in conflict and propose a treatment plan. After we all agree on the treatment plan, we will practice building communication tools. The expectation will be for you to practice these tools in between session. By improving your communication tools and managing your patterns, you will deepen your emotional connection. The end result and hope is that you will learn things about yourself and about each other. Also, by increasing your contact rate, you will reduct uncertainty. I will create a warm, safe, and supportive therapeutic online space as you work together to achieve your goals. I don't take sides. I’m there to support both of you. I balance between being directive and caring towards both of you. Together, you will learn to reclaim what has been lost to the two of you and claim what you are truly capable of as partners. If you are ready to improve your relationship, give me a call at (408) 219-6676, click the button, or visit my contact page to schedule a free consultation. Counseling sessions are available online.. I can see anyone in California. Specialties include: military couples, older couples, immigrant couples, couples therapy in Spanish, marriage therapy, Lesbian Couples, Gay Couples, LGBTQ and gender affirming couples, and lack of emotional or physical intimacy.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In the military, you operated with confidence and purpose, executing your duties admirably for our country. Transitioning to civilian life presents a different terrain, one that may seem disorienting at first. The structured environment and clear directives you once knew are now replaced with ambiguity and uncertainty. Or you might be struggling with memories that haunt you. Despite your efforts to reintegrate or forget, you find yourself navigating a landscape where your experiences is not recognized, valued, or understood. Interactions with loved ones, once a source of comfort, might be highlighting the growing divide between your worlds. You feel alone. Recognizing the toll the military experience has taken on your well-being, While the road ahead may be difficult at times, know that you are not alone. Through perseverance and self-care, you can navigate this change and rediscover a sense of belonging and purpose in your civilian life.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Book a free consultation to see if this is the right fit for you. Taking the first step can feel difficult—but it can also be the beginning of something different. Please contact me to schedule a free 20-minute consultation. If you have any questions, please visit my other pages, my FAQ page, or call me. Therapy has the power to transform you and your relationship.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>We'll work together to heal the trauma in your body, mind, and spirit. We'll meet weekly online with you in the comfort of your home or private space. We’ll set goals in a supportive environment in order to help you overcome obstacles and learn new skills. In therapy, you'll learn to take back control of your life and live up to your true potential. We can find the best tool for you to heal. In addition to talk therapy, I am trained in ACT, IFS, EMDR, Brainspotting, CCTP, trauma-informed therapy. If you are a veteran or immigrant, I can relate to your experience. If you are in the LGBTQ+ community, you are in a safe space.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Book a free consultation to see if this feels like the right fit for you. Taking the first step can feel difficult—but it can also be the beginning of something different. Please contact me to schedule a free 20-minute consultation. If you have any questions, please visit my other pages, my FAQ page, or call me. Therapy has the power to transform you and your relationship.</image:caption>
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